How to Choose the Perfect Engraved Message for Your Loved One
Personalised jewellery holds a special place in our hearts, and choosing the right engraved message can transform a beautiful piece into a treasured keepsake. As a creator of handmade, personalised jewellery, I've helped countless customers find the perfect words to express their feelings. Here are some tips to help you choose an engraved message that will resonate with your loved one.
Consider the Occasion
Is this for a birthday, anniversary, graduation, or just because? The occasion can guide your message. For instance:
- Birthday: "Happy 30th, Sarah! Stay wild and wonderful."
- Anniversary: "10 years down, forever to go. I love you, John."
- Graduation: "The world is yours, Emma. Class of 2024!
Think About Your Relationship
Your relationship with the recipient should influence your message. A romantic partner, a family member, or a friend each calls for a different tone:
- Romantic: "My heart is yours, always and forever."
- Family: "Mum, your love is my guiding light."
- Friendship: "Partners in crime since 2005!
Keep It Concise
Remember, space is limited on most jewellery pieces. Aim for a message that's short but impactful. Sometimes, just a few words or even initials can carry profound meaning:
- "My anchor"
- "Forever & always"
- "J+S 05.15.22"
Use Meaningful Dates or Coordinates
Numbers can be powerfully sentimental. Consider using:
- A significant date: "09.22.18" (your wedding date)
- Coordinates: "51°30'26.5"N 0°07'39.6"W" (London Eye coordinates)
Incorporate Inside Jokes or Shared Memories
Nothing says "I know you" like referencing a shared experience or inside joke:
- "Fancy a brew?" (for Ted Lasso admirers)
- "Bake Off buddies forever" (for Great British Bake Off aficionados)
Consider a Quote or Song Lyric
If you're struggling to find your own words, borrow from the greats:
- "I carry your heart with me" (E.E. Cummings)
- "In case you ever foolishly forget: I am never not thinking of you" (Virginia Woolf)
- "You are my today and all of my tomorrows (Leo Christopher)
Use Their Native Language
If your loved one speaks another language, consider using it for an extra personal touch:
- "Te amo" (Spanish for "I love you")
- "Amore mio" (Italian for "My love")
- "Mon cœur" (French for "My heart")
- "Para siempre" (Spanish for "Forever")
- "Sempre" (Italian for "Always")
- "Amor vincit omnia" (Latin for “Love conquers all”)
- "Semper fidelis" (Latin for “Always faithful”)
Use Your Own Handwriting, Or That of a Loved One
One of the most personal and touching ways to create a truly unique piece of jewellery is to use actual handwriting in the engraving. This option adds an incredibly sentimental touch to your piece. Here are some ideas for using handwriting in your engraved message:
- Your own signature: Have your own signature engraved on a piece for your loved one, creating a constant reminder of your presence.
- A loved one's handwriting: Use the handwriting of a family member or friend. This can be especially poignant for memorialising someone who has passed away.
- Children's writing: Capture a child's handwriting at a particular age – it's a beautiful way to preserve a moment in time.
- Love notes: Have a snippet from a handwritten love letter or note engraved on a piece of jewellery.
- Words of wisdom: Use the handwritten advice or motto of a respected family member or mentor.
To use this option, you'll typically need to provide a clear image of the handwriting. It's best if the writing is done in black ink on white paper, with the text written as large and clearly as possible. Don't worry about perfection – the natural quirks and imperfections in handwriting are what make this option so special.
Remember, due to space limitations, shorter messages or single words often work best for handwriting engravings. But even a single word in the handwriting of someone special can carry immense emotional weight.
When in Doubt, Keep It Simple and Timeless
Sometimes, the simplest messages are the most powerful:
- "I love you"
- "Always"
- "Forever yours"
The most important thing is that your message comes from the heart. It doesn't have to be poetic or profound – it just needs to be genuine and meaningful to you and your loved one.
Choosing an engraved message is a beautiful way to make a piece of jewellery uniquely special. Take your time, trust your instincts, and don't be afraid to ask for input from friends or family if you're stuck.
And if you're still unsure, feel free to reach out to me! As a jewellery maker, I'm always happy to brainstorm ideas with my customers to create the perfect personalized piece.
